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by Well+Good Editors, April 23, 2017

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Life can be stressful (understatement of the century?). Between wrangling your morning commute, chipping away at your never-ending to-do list, and somehow maintaining a semblance of work-life balance,it can be hard to take a moment to just breathe.

But when you try to clear your mind for a meditation sesh, somehow youre flooded with thoughtsranging from your weekend brunch plansto thatembarrassing moment in yesterdays Pilates classall at the same time.

Relax, youre not a meditation failure. Mindfulness proRosie Acosta, a contributing expert towomens wellness siteNourish + Bloom, says its never too late to start.

Utilizing tools like yoga, mindfulness, and meditation, were essentially just creating more positive emotions, more energy, more focus, more presence, less distraction, Acosta says. For people who are beginning, once they do these things theyll notice a difference right away. Not only physiologically, but also mentally and emotionally.

You can find five minutes out of that 1,440-minute day to just do something for you and for your mental health.

Andthat doesnt mean you need to wake up at 4:30 a.m. to get in your dose of mindfulness (like Acosta does). The key, she says, is not making the practice a stressor for yourselfespecially if being super busy iswhy youre seeking it out in the first place.

If you have one minute or five minutes it makes such a huge difference, Acosta adds. I always say, there are 1,440 minutes in a day. You can find five minutes out of that 1,440-minute day to just do something for you and for your mental health.

To start, Acosta recommendsthree methods basedon your current emotional state, where you are physically, and how much time you have. Overall, the important part is to tune into the present, a skill Acosta says is the key to creating a healthy relationship with yourself.

I think its important to become attuned to who and what we are because were in a modern culture that is troubled, Acosta says. To be able to create mindfulness, relaxation, and present awareness is really key for us to be able to accomplish anything in life.

Below, Acosta shares three simple techniques to get more meditation in your lifeand you can also score her in-the-moment wisdom on the N+B Life app.

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Acosta recommends true beginners start with a breathing exerciseto help quiet your brains constant chatter. The mind typically wanders because it wants something to do, Acosta says. So when you tell the mind to pay attention to the breath, then youve given it an assignment.

Also? Its a great way to chill out when your stress levels spike. Youre disengaging from the actual thing that happenedwork pressure, getting into it with your husband, whateverthat caused that stress in the first place, she explains. You can then come back into the present with wisdom as opposed to reactivity.

How to do it:

1. Start off sitting, standing, or lying down, and set a timer for three to five minutes to give yourself one less excuse for distraction. Close your eyes (or leave them open, focusing on a single point) and pay attention to the inhale and exhale of your breath.

2.Begin creating a pattern with your breathing by inhaling through your nose for four seconds, pausing, then exhaling for five seconds (the longer exhale encourages your parasympathetic nervous system, which regulates stress, to calm you down).

3. If your mind strays, acknowledge that gently and bring it back to your breathing pattern.

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The body scan is really helpful for beginners who are wanting to get more into the benefits of what meditation does, Acosta says. Because you do it for longer than you would mindful breathing, so you can really feel into your body and can really feel the effects. The minute you start to bring awareness to different parts of your body, all of a sudden your breath changes.

How to do it:

1. Settle in for 10 to 20 minutes. Ideally, body scans should be performedlying down, but the method can also work seated (even in your office desk chair). If youre able to lie down, relax on your back in a position similar to yogas savasana pose.

2. Close your eyes, and begin to bring awareness to your body by methodically breathing in and out. Then, take inventory of each area on your body startingfrom your toes up, noticing any tingling, tightness, and differences in temperature.

3. Focus on the backs of your heels, legs, seat, the part of your upper back thats touching the ground, your upper shoulders, the backs of your arms, hands, and the back of your head.

4. Reverse the scan back down, and then repeat the process focusing on the front side of your body. Dont rush it, or force yourself to feel anything. Just be there with your body.

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Acosta recommends this targeted meditation for moments who your mind is flat out too busy for a simple breathing break. I think that for people who want to have meditation with a purpose, its a really loving, self-affirming way to enter meditation, she explains.

How to do it:

1. Assume any comfortable position in a quiet place for 10 to 15 minutes.Close your eyes, relax your shoulders, and imagine you are softening the areas around your heart.

2. There are four traditional phrases you can begin saying to yourself: May I be filled with love, may I be safe from harm, may I be well, and may I be happy and free. Breathe in and out as you repeat these phrases and hold an image of yourself in your mind, as if you are saying these words directly to yourself.

3. You will begin to feel a sense of ease as your body lets go. Its also totally normal for this practice to feel awkward or to stir up irritating or upsetting feelingsbut thats okay. The important thing is to be patient and kind to yourself, byacknowledgingyour feelings and moving on.

4. Once youre comfortable with the self-love affirmation (which can take several sessionsdont push it!),you can extend the meditation to others, filling intheir name in eachmantra.

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